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Dear Dr. Hedda: I live in a small town and there aren’t many dateable men in my age group which is the early 50s. So whenever an opportunity comes up to be fixed up with a man from another town I take advantage of it. Well recently a friend fixed me up with this guy from a town about 90 miles from where I live. We talked on he phone a few times an seemed to have some values and interests in common so we agreed to meet. We met one afternoon and I thought we had a very good time. We laughed a lot and told each some of our life stories....

Posted on Nov 26 2014 - 10:36pm by Dr Hedda Mae
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Dear Dr Hedda: Kevin and I have been dating for about three months. He is very likeable, kind and a good listener. I enjoy his company a lot. We met on a blind date. One of my more successful ones. We seemed to hit it off right away. We talked for hours and I thought well, I finally met someone who has potential. Someone I might even have a relationship with. When he kissed me goodnight it was one of those special first kisses. He hugged me closely and I couldn’t help but feel that he had an erection. Well good I thought....

Dear Dr Hedda Ken and I have been dating for about two years. The past few months it’s gotten pretty serious with talk of a life together, children, marriage etc. I love him and he’s a good man. We seem to fit together well and our families get along. So what’s wrong ? Well when we have sex, which I enjoy, and he reaches orgasm he oinks like a pig. Loudly, for several seconds. It talks all the control I have not to laugh out loud. It’s such a bizarre sound. There are times I avoid sex with him just because...

Dear Dr. Hedda: I’ve been seeing a married man now for three years. We get together once a month, sometimes over night, sometimes not. We don’t go out to shows, take long walks or eat out with friends. This has been our secret all this time. I have told him many, many times if it ever comes to choosing between me and his wife he should pick her. Our relationship is 80% sexual and 20% mutual interests. I like him a lot, enjoy his company and I love the sex. But occasionally guilt rears it’s ugly head and I think...

Posted on Aug 21 2014 - 10:02am by Heidi Krantz
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So you know those consistently lucky women, the type who ride off into the sunset while kissing their new man? The ones that seem to hit it off with just the right guy at the party, talking and laughing together as if nobody else exists? The ones who just met their fabulous boyfriend online who they absolutely love and can’t stop talking about? Well, let me bring you in on a secret: They don’t have magical powers, nobody has cast an “irresistible spell” upon them, and you can actually make the same “luck” happen for yourself,...

Dear Dr. Hedda: When I heard about Robin Williams death it felt like I lost a family member. His comedic presence was with me all my life. I remember as a child watching “Mork and Mindy” and all of his great shows and movies that followed. This is a man I never met, he never played any role in my life and yet, I find myself grieving his loss. Why am acting this way ? I am deeply depressed and find myself crying over his death. And the way he chose to die seems so painful to me. Why am I grieving someone I don’t...

Dear Dr. Hedda I am 27 years old and live independently from my parents. I have a well paying job, good friends and a pretty happy life except for my mother. I love her dearly but, she is on my case all the time. Almost always about the men I date. I’m not ready to settle down. I like my freedom and independence. I am not ready for a husband and family. I may never be ready for that. My mother thinks that I am right on the edge of being a slut because I date several men at a time. Not hundreds but 2 or 3 different guys. They...

Posted on Jul 15 2014 - 9:11am by Dr Hedda Mae
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Dear Dr Hedda: Call me names, I deserve it. I’m a adultress, sleeping with another woman’s man. And enjoying every minute it except for the guilt. I’ve heard stories all my life about women who wreck marriages. That kind of mean and wicked and selfish person.And I am doing the same thing. My marriage ended because of “another woman” and I said to myself I would never do that, and here I am doing it. There’s always a reason. Some better than others. My wife doesn’t love me anymore but...

Dear Dr. Hedda   Greg and I have been dating for  seven months and having sex for five months.  The sex is pretty darn good.  No fireworks but a steady, nice, gentle lover.  He recently brought up the subject of anal sex.  My first reaction was oh I don’t think so.  I’ve never done it and it isn’t on my bucket list.  Actually the idea of someone’s penis up my rectum doesn’t sound to appealing. And there must be health issues involved with it.  But he has brought it up several times(no pun intended). ...

Dear Dr. Hedda: I’ve been seeing this man for several months now. He is delightful. We laugh a lot and the sex is terrific. Every time I see him I care for him more and more. We don’t see each very often, maybe three times a month. He lives a 2 hour drive away and can’t always make the time. We both still work and I understand the difficulty. He is a medical professional and is frequently on call, especially weekends. In between dates we speak on the phone and email. I love his emails they are sweet and affectionate....