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It hit me on the first day of a recent vacation in Riviera Maya, Mexico with my husband (Steve). We found ourselves signing up for an expensive snorkeling excursion as well as a horseback riding trip before we had even hit the beach. Why? We were planning to relax and consider discussing some activity possibilities later on in the trip. What was it that won us over so quickly and definitely? Simple, it was the Tour Representative’s skilled vibe – he had mastered that fine line between “interested and desperate.” Therein lies the...

Posted on Oct 4 2013 - 3:56pm by Dr Hedda Mae
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Dear Dr. Hedda: I didn’t think this would bother me but it really does. About a year ago I met this guy on line. We chatted for about two months and then finally met. He’s terrific and he thinks I am too. So, what’s the problem you ask, well, he’s 2 inches shorter than I am, 4-5 inches if I wear heels. At first, after we first met I thought about him a lot and most of our...

Posted on Sep 27 2013 - 5:30pm by Dr Hedda Mae
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I am recently divorced. It’s not that easy when you’re almost 65 when it happens. It’s a long sad story about betrayal, lying, cheating etc. I know I am well rid of him and it’s not him I am writing about, it’s me. I never thought this would happen. I thought it was a forever marriage and I feel old and alone and it’s scary out there. I look at the men in my age group and they all look so old. Is this it? Will I always be alone? Do I have to settle for some balding man with suspenders. Where...

Dear Dr Hedda: I met Phil about 8 months ago. We seem to hit it off right away. Almost as soon as we started dating sparks were flying. It’s an attraction I never felt before. Everything was going great until… two days ago when a girlfriend of mine called. She said that she had seen Phil late one night doing Meth with a couple of his friends we didn’t know. They were doing it...

Dear Dr. Hedda: This is not your usual letter. I’m not some cute young thing with boyfriend problems. I’m 73 and my “boyfriend” is 76. We dated for two years and have been living together now for 8 months. He is a good companion and I love him and so do my firends. I’ve been married twice before and had very difficult and painful divorces. The problems then were...

Dear Dr Hedda: I’m in my late twenties and work at home. I do well and enjoy my work. But you don’t meet any men in your at-home office. I’m lonely. So I decided to try some dating services. More expensive than I thougth but what choice did I have. I signed up at two different services. Over that past year I have had about 20 dates. All first dates only, no phone calls, no flowers. I’ve been meeting the strangest men I ever met. They come right out and discuss their sexual likes and dislikes.. No smoke and...

Dear Dr. Hedda Peter and I have been married for 11 years. I think we still love each other . One of the first attractions we had for each other was that neither of us wanted children. We still feel the same way. That’s not the problem. The prorblem is sex. The first couple of years was great. We made love about 3-5 times a week. It was fun and we both enjoyed it. But, it’s been slowing up over the years and the number has decreased. It’s down to about once a month and then only if I push about it. Our lovemaking,...

Dear Dr. Hedda:   I’m starting to doubt myself.  My third marriage just ended.  He left me for another woman.  So did my second husband.  I always thought I was a good. loving, supportive wife.  I cook sometimes, I clean up most of the time.  I am healthy, thin, well educated and quite attractive. I’ve always been able to support myself comfortably.  I have never been a financial burden on any of my husbands. OMG did I just say that.  It sounds like the number of my ex husbands is legion.   What I am doing wrong ? ...

Dear Dr Hedda:   I’m in my late twenties and work at home.  I do well and enjoy my work.   But you don’t meet any men in your at-home office.  I’m lonely. So I decided to try some dating services.  More expensive than I thought but what choice did I have.   I signed up at two different services.  Over that past year I have had about 20 dates. ...

Dr. Hedda on Justin Bieber and His Recent Outlandish Behavior Is he just a kid who happens to be a Superstar? Is he an emotionally troubled kid who happens to be a Superstar? Is he just a immature, sheltered from the real world, 19 year old who is a Superstar? The answer is – Yes he is all of the above. After reading articles, interviews and stories about Justin Bieber and watching several of his performance and interview videos I can clearly state that he behaves like a kid because he is a kid. I question his world view, having...